The first impulse of not wanting to be alone gives you the complete freedom to explore and enjoy yourself. You will be going out on dates with all sorts of people from all walks of life because you will not be thinking of considering them as being suitable for marriage or a long term commitment.
There will be some dates where your normal standard is lower than usual and some where your standard is higher, but you will be exploring the field and enjoying your sense of freedom.
There is nothing wrong with that because your second impulse will always be protecting you from commitment. It really doesn’t matter what your dates are like. It doesn’t matter how good looking they are, whether your parents or friends would like them, if they are successful or not or if they have any bad habits.
The reason it doesn’t matter is because mentally, before you even started dating again, you had made a firm decision that you were not going to enter another serious relationship under any circumstances because you are not ready for that. What actually happens is that on a deeper and much more basic level, you skip right the way past the first phase of romance and then suddenly wake up one morning with a swift reality check.
You find that the person you are going out with has absolutely nothing in common with you and you are not even that keen on their personality. It is as if all of a sudden, every flaw that they have and all of their minor irritations are right there, staring you in the face. All rebound relationships commence with a need to prove yourself again, some lack of self confidence that needs to be erased and a need to feel wanted. As soon as those doubts have gone, the rebound girl or guy is surplus to requirements.
It doesn’t take long for you to come to the realization that what you did was totally an impulsive reaction and recognize that it was just a rebound and quickly move on. That is just the way in which any rebound relationship works for anyone.
They can allow you to have some fun by exploring the dating world, but it doesn’t take too long for reality to set in as explained above. When that happens, you will soon see your mistake and end the relationship. If your ex is in a rebound relationship, you can easily see that it won’t last and because of that there is still a chance of reconciliation.
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